I mean…. I identified as bi at some point so uh… saying I don’t have the “lived experience” is incorrect in most things you say. I was in a cis-het relationship that gave me a lot of protections I don’t experience now in an interracial lesbian relationship. You quoted your own experiences and keep citing “empirical evidence” while being subjective so I guess we’re inherently both doing the same at the end of the day. shrug