When you’re talking about this there’s multitudes to it- you also have to take into economic, social, racial, and trans status/issues that heavily impact people’s access to the right sort of tools to manage that. Just saying bisexual people are more likely to kill themselves than anyone else ignores a lot of crucial stepping stones of intersectionality- could be a lot more at play and ultimately it’s probably because a lot of acceptance of queer identity comes from within which I agree- is hard finding validity bc of the RAMPANT biphobia in the community (Twitter is hell time).

Trans people last year saw the most anti trans legislation in a while and trans black women are killed at an insanely higher rate. There’s so many arguments to open up here but at the heart of this one is bi white women really need to recognize how cis-het presenting relationships do lend them a level of protection. People in the community will probably be more likely to listen to their insecurities if they recognize their privilege and don’t become defensive about it because truly, the people who love you and are good in this community will accept you. Hell, I don’t care what you are! Date whoever- you’re still gay. The idea of validity tied through appearance and not reflecting on self and things like compulsive heteronormativity stunts growth and also this sort of clickbait can be 100% weaponized by the wrong people as a “this is a phase” “awww let my daughter get a haircut she’ll stop being gay!” She could have centralized the conversation outside the male gaze and it probably would have emphasized her point better